Raising Support: Going Outside of Your Comfort Zone

December 31, 2024

If even hearing the phrase “support raising” makes your stomach churn, you’re not alone. For many people trying to make an impact, the idea of asking others for financial support feels awkward, uncomfortable, and maybe even wrong. You don’t want to be seen as a burden, and the thought of rejection is, well, terrifying.  


But here’s the thing - support raising isn’t about begging for money or putting people on the spot. It’s about building relationships, fostering partnership, and inviting others to join you in making a difference. If you're willing to challenge your perspective, let's talk through some reasons why support raising might not be the scary, burdensome task you've imagined.  


Support Raising is Ministry Too  


When you’re pursuing a mission to serve others, the idea often comes with a mindset of “I’ll do all the work, others can cheer me on from afar.” But here’s a perspective shift - support raising is ministry.  


When you invite others to give, you’re offering them the chance to partner with you in something larger than themselves. You’re helping them use their resources to sow into a mission that aligns with their values and passions. Giving is as much a spiritual practice as prayer or church attendance. By raising support, you’re not just asking for funds; you’re inviting people to step into God’s work in a tangible way. It’s about co-laboring, not “funding” you.  


Raising Support Builds Genuine Relationships  


Think of support as more than just financial backing - it's a foundation for deeper connections. Most people who give to your mission aren’t doing it just out of obligation. They care about you, your goals, and the community you’re serving. This shared commitment often forges powerfully authentic relationships.  


Plus, when you approach support raising relationally, it moves beyond transactions. It becomes about conversations, listening to what excites others, and celebrating the shared impact you’re both helping to create. Donors stop being a separate “group” in your mind—they become friends, cheerleaders, and advisors. Who wouldn’t want to grow their circle that way?  


It’s Not About Taking; It’s About Sharing  


One of the biggest roadblocks many face is the fear of being a burden. “What will they think of me asking for money?” is a question that loops on repeat. But here’s a reframing exercise for you.. stop thinking about it as “asking for money” and start thinking about it as “sharing opportunities.”  


There are people out there who have the resources and desire to contribute to meaningful work. They’re just waiting for the right cause or person to guide them. When you present your mission, you're offering them a chance to align with their own heart's calling. You’re not taking; you’re creating an opportunity for them to give with purpose. That’s a gift, not a burden.  


Growth Happens Outside Your Comfort Zone  


Let’s be real, anything worthwhile often comes with challenges. Support raising can be humbling, stretching, and maybe even nerve-wracking at first. But here’s the thing about discomfort.. it’s where growth happens.  

You’ll grow in courage by stepping out in faith. You’ll become a better communicator as you share your mission. You’ll develop resilience along the way. And perhaps most beautifully, you’ll see God meet you in your weakness, showing you that the ultimate provider isn’t your donors; it’s Him.  

A Practical Approach That Changes Everything


If you’re still hesitant, here’s a tip - treat it like storytelling. Rather than starting conversations around money, focus on sharing stories of the why behind your mission.  


  • Why does this mission matter to you?  
  • What impact will this mission have on the community you’re serving?  
  • How are lives already being changed?  


When people connect emotionally and spiritually with your story, support becomes secondary. Vision inspires generosity far more than numbers do.  


The Truth About Rejection  


Rejection is one of the top fears for people who are new to support raising. “What if they say no?” is a valid concern. But here’s the truth—not everyone will partner with you financially, and that’s okay.  

Some will decline simply because they aren’t able to, and that’s not a reflection of their care for you. Others may not feel called to your specific mission, and that’s also okay. What counts is that you are faithful in sharing your vision. Every “no” is just one step closer to the person who will wholeheartedly say “yes.”  


You’re Not Alone in This Journey  


Finally, remember that you are not alone. There are thousands of people who’ve felt the same apprehensions you’re feeling right now and have come out the other side with stories of gratitude and joy. There are tools, resources, and communities ready to help guide you through.  

If you’re serious about your calling but still feel unsure about support raising, you don’t have to go it alone. Take small steps, lean on your faith, and surround yourself with others who can mentor and encourage you. You might just find that support raising transforms not only your work but your own heart as well.  


Your Next Step  



Still wondering how to get started or need help navigating the process? We’d love to connect with you and provide resources or guidance as you walk this road. Feel free to reach out to learn more because together, we can make your mission come alive.


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