If even hearing the phrase “support raising” makes your stomach churn, you’re not alone. For many people trying to make an impact, the idea of asking others for financial support feels awkward, uncomfortable, and maybe even wrong. You don’t want to be seen as a burden, and the thought of rejection is, well, terrifying. But here’s the thing - support raising isn’t about begging for money or putting people on the spot. It’s about building relationships, fostering partnership, and inviting others to join you in making a difference. If you're willing to challenge your perspective, let's talk through some reasons why support raising might not be the scary, burdensome task you've imagined. Support Raising is Ministry Too When you’re pursuing a mission to serve others, the idea often comes with a mindset of “I’ll do all the work, others can cheer me on from afar.” But here’s a perspective shift - support raising is ministry. When you invite others to give, you’re offering them the chance to partner with you in something larger than themselves. You’re helping them use their resources to sow into a mission that aligns with their values and passions. Giving is as much a spiritual practice as prayer or church attendance. By raising support, you’re not just asking for funds; you’re inviting people to step into God’s work in a tangible way. It’s about co-laboring, not “funding” you. Raising Support Builds Genuine Relationships Think of support as more than just financial backing - it's a foundation for deeper connections. Most people who give to your mission aren’t doing it just out of obligation. They care about you, your goals, and the community you’re serving. This shared commitment often forges powerfully authentic relationships. Plus, when you approach support raising relationally, it moves beyond transactions. It becomes about conversations, listening to what excites others, and celebrating the shared impact you’re both helping to create. Donors stop being a separate “group” in your mind—they become friends, cheerleaders, and advisors. Who wouldn’t want to grow their circle that way? It’s Not About Taking; It’s About Sharing One of the biggest roadblocks many face is the fear of being a burden. “What will they think of me asking for money?” is a question that loops on repeat. But here’s a reframing exercise for you.. stop thinking about it as “asking for money” and start thinking about it as “sharing opportunities.” There are people out there who have the resources and desire to contribute to meaningful work. They’re just waiting for the right cause or person to guide them. When you present your mission, you're offering them a chance to align with their own heart's calling. You’re not taking; you’re creating an opportunity for them to give with purpose. That’s a gift, not a burden. Growth Happens Outside Your Comfort Zone Let’s be real, anything worthwhile often comes with challenges. Support raising can be humbling, stretching, and maybe even nerve-wracking at first. But here’s the thing about discomfort.. it’s where growth happens. You’ll grow in courage by stepping out in faith. You’ll become a better communicator as you share your mission. You’ll develop resilience along the way. And perhaps most beautifully, you’ll see God meet you in your weakness, showing you that the ultimate provider isn’t your donors; it’s Him.