December 30, 2024
Congratulations! If you’re reading this, chances are you’re either newly engaged or freshly married, standing at the start of a beautiful new chapter with your partner. Marriage is such a joyful, God-ordained union, but it also comes with its share of questions, especially if you feel called to foreign or local missions. You might find yourself wondering, “Should we wait to go into the mission field? Should we take time to settle into married life first? Can we truly balance both?” These are big questions, and there are no “one-size-fits-all” answers. But with prayer, reflection, and some guidance, you can discern if this is the right time for you and your spouse to step into missions together. Here’s some food for thought as you prayerfully consider this decision. Your Marriage Is a Ministry Before addressing whether or not to jump into missions, it’s essential to recognize one powerful truth. You and your spouse’s union is already a ministry. Your marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. Through your partnership, you model sacrificial love, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment, which can be a testimony to those around you. However, just like any ministry, it requires time, effort, and intentionality. Especially in the early days of marriage, you’ll be laying down the foundation for how you and your spouse communicate, resolve conflicts, and grow together spiritually. Ask yourselves honestly - Are we at a place where we can serve others while continuing to nurture the health of our relationship? Marriage and missions can go hand in hand, but ensuring that your relationship is solid and Christ-centered is key before taking that next step. Reasons to Enter the Mission Field Now There are a few reasons why jumping into the mission field as newlyweds might be a good choice for you both: 1. You Share a Unified Calling If you and your spouse feel equally passionate and called by God to missions, this might be His way of inviting you to serve Him directly together. Entering into missions as a couple can deepen your partnership and strengthen your faith as you face challenges and celebrate victories together. 2. It Can Shape the Foundation of Your Marriage For some couples, starting married life in a mission field can fortify the foundations of their relationship in a unique way. Serving others together teaches compassion and selflessness on a whole new level. It helps you lean on Christ and each other in ways that a more routine life may not. 3. Timing Might Be Aligned If both of your lives are at a stage where you’re relatively free of heavy obligations (like children, long-term careers, or debts), it may be the perfect season for you to pursue mission work. This flexibility is not guaranteed in every life stage, and you may want to strike while the timing is right.